Don't Worry About Failing at "Resolutions" This New Year (Just Set Better Goals) -- Perfectionist's Guide to Letting Go

I've never been a person who's good at New Year's resolutions. I'd always set my sights on a bunch of lofty aspirations and then wind up dropping off after a few months or a few weeks, never getting to exactly where I'd hoped I would by the time the next December 31st rolled around. And it always felt terrible, because I thought I was failing.